Great Blow-job From Lee

Lee is going to be headed to her mother's house for a week starting tomorrow, so we both wanted to make sure we had sex before she did. She was feeling a bit down because she'd been so tired the last few days and unable to join me. She asked me when she got home from work on Friday whether I'd masturbated the night before, and I told her I had. She looked disappointed, not because I had, but, again, because she felt like she'd let me down. Not many years ago, it probably would have been a problem, because we had such a bad dynamic around initiating sex and the like. But that hasn't been true for a while, so I told her it was fine, which it was.

Our daughter was going to be coming home from her college abode, where she's been working for the summer, since it's her birthday, and we were all going to go to a baseball game together. But we had some time, so we stayed in bed, dozing and talking, until fairly late. As we did, I started to caress her stomach, lifting the tank top Lee had worn to bed, and then to stroke her pussy through her panties. We eventually decided we'd better get to it, and Lee said she'd like a visit from her purple friend, since she'd not see it for a while. I told her she could take it with her, but she said it would be too loud. To be honest, I was teasing, since I can't see her using it at her mother's house.

I spent a bit more time caressing Lee's vulva, first under her panties and then over them, until she asked me please to get her toy. So I rolled over and grabbed it from beside the bed, plugged it in, and started it up. I didn't focus on her clit right away, but used it to rub a large oval around her vulva: starting at the top, then going down her right lip to her vagina, around the very bottom of her pussy, and then up the left lip. I did that a few times, then just rubbed the vibrator up and down her slit. All of this was to tease her, to increase her arousal before we moved in the direction of orgasm. She was starting to make the sweet little noises she does when she is aroused.

I made the circles smaller as I went, then let the vibrator settle over her clit. I was moving it just in very tiny circles when Lee reached down to grab it and hold it steady, and push it harder into her. I didn't realize she was so close to orgasm, but moments later she threw her head back and came, long and hard. She started to lift the vibrator off her clit, but I "fought" her a bit and held it in light contact with her vulva, and she came a second time, just as she was coming down off the first one. Then, though, she had to pull the vibrator off her. She gets so sensitive.

"It's like magic", she said, smiling, as she came out of it. I just kissed her.

"What do you want to do with your penis?" she asked me. I honestly wasn't sure. I felt too tired to fuck, meaning: I was unsure I'd be able to keep an erection if we did. So I kind of punted. What I really wanted was a blowjob, but for some reason I didn't want to ask for it. I've always got this problem asking Lee for things. I feel like I'm imposing on her. To some extent, that's just my issue, and I'm trying to be less reticent, but it can still be hard. Lee has some problems with the muscles in her hand, and I know her hand gets tired. Her mouth, too. But I guess I should let her be the judge of when it is too much.

Anyway, Lee eventually offered to put my cock in her mouth, and I told her that'd be great. But I had no idea it would be as great as it turned out to be.

Lee started by licking my cock and sucking lightly on the glans. She then got into stroking the shaft with her hand while sucking gently on the tip. It was about that time I started to think I might actually be able to cum from her sucking me. Usually, she'll just suck me for a while, and then I'll finish by masturbating. But Lee seemed really to be getting into what she was doing, which was making me a lot more able to relax. She then started bobbing her mouth on my cock, so that it was going in and out of her mouth quite quickly. I started to thrust my hips at the same time, so I was basically fucking Lee's mouth, and she was moving her head in rhythm with me.

That felt amazing, and it launched me into a fantasy. I love the idea of fucking a woman's mouth in a more dominant way. I imagined Lee lying at the edge of the bed, her head thrown back, and me standing over her, with my cock in her mouth, fucking her beautiful face. I kept that fantasy going as she went back to stroking me with her hand and occasionally sucking the glans. It was like every time she did put me into her mouth, I'd start to move closer to orgasm, and then when she'd take me out again I'd fall back a little bit. Two steps forward, one step back. That teasing was really building my arousal—and the more aroused I get before I cum, the more intense the orgasm when I finally do.

Lee seemed to sense what was happening and started to put me into her mouth for longer at each stretch. (Was she concerned about my cumming in her mouth? I'll have to ask her....) In my fantasy, I started to think about how it would look as I pulled out of Lee's mouth and came all over her face. That, together with what Lee was doing, took me over the edge, and I started to cum really hard. It felt so great that I was almost laughing as I finished.

"That was terrific", I said, barely managing that much.

Playing Together

Lee and I were both feeling tired, but it had been a few days since we'd fooled around, and we both wanted to feel that connection you can only feel with someone through sex.

As often, Lee was wanting to use her "little purple friend", as she calls it, which is otherwise known as the Inspire vibrator from California Exotic Novelties. It's little, but it's powerful, and it gets her off like nothing else she's tried so far. So we got into bed, me in just my panties, and her in a t-shirt and her panties. We kissed for a bit and then caressed each other. I love to stroke Lee's stomach, and that was making me hard, so she reached down and took my cock out of my panties, holding it and stroking it softly. I found my way into her panties and massaged her labia for a while, and then she declared that she was ready for her friend.

Dr. Joel Kaplan Versatile Prostate Stimulator: A Reasonably Good Prostate Vibrator

Once I manage to get this toy in the right position, I'm able to orgasm with it repeatedly, so that's great. But getting it into the right position, and keeping it there, is more difficult than it ought to be. So, I find myself using this toy less than I otherwise might.

The Dr. Joel Kaplan Versatile Prostate Stimulator, from California Exotic Novelties, is obviously intended to be used by people with prostates. That said, I've seen what looks to be the same device advertised as a G-spot stimulator, and most P-spot vibrators will happily double as G-spot vibrators. So, it's likely that it can also be used that way. Since I've only got a prostate, though, I'll focus my review on that kind of use.

Evolved Novelties P3: Not So Great

The P3 does get one thing right: The vibrator is at the tip of the insertable portion, so it can deliver the sensation right where it's needed. Unfortunately though, the insertable portion is not curved nearly enough to make solid contact with the prostate just as it's inserted. So you have to hold it in just the right position to get it to do its thing, which is something you can do with pretty much any vibrator that has the mechanism at the tip.

Nexus Vibro: Worth Twice the Titus?

The Vibro is a Titus that can vibrate. So the question is: Does adding the possibility of vibration make it worth over twice the money? For me, the answer is: No. The vibration adds very little to my experience when I use the Vibro the same way I'd use a Titus, and it is simply too weak to make the Vibro work well when used just as a vibrator.

Nexus Titus Prostate Massager: My Favorite Such Toy

From among the many non-vibrating prostate massagers that one controls using the PC muscles, this one is my favorite so far. If you like strong pressure on the prostate, the Titus will be a good bet.

Although there are probably other ways to use it, the Nexus Titus is intended to be used anally by people who have prostates. You insert it into the rectum, and the shape of the toy takes care of the rest, situating the toy so that the "tip" is in firm contact with the prostate. You can then do a variety of things so as to get the Titus to massage your prostate so as to produce sensual pleasure and so-called "prostate" orgasms. You can do this solo or during sex with a partner.

Evovled's "Get a Grip" Prostate Massager: Very Well Done!

The "special feature" of the "Get a Grip" prostate vibrator is presumably the handle, and the handle does make it easier than other toys to maneuver it into the right place. And, when it is in the right place, it is magical. But it's just a bit harder than it should be to get it into the right place, though that is not an uncommon problem with these toys. Compared to the alternatives, then, highly recommended, even if it could be improved.

The Duke: Excellent, and Unusual, Prostate Stimulator

How well the Duke works for someone will depend, more than with most prostate toys, on how well it fits their internal anatomy. But if it fits right, then it can provide amazing pleasure.

The "Duke Click 'n' Charge" vibrator from Fun Factory is clearly intended for prostate stimulation. It's one of the more unusual such toys I've used. It's shape is all its own. Indeed, I can't think of anything even remotely like it. I'm sure there are other ways it could be used, but it seems to have been designed with prostate stimulation very much in mind. How well does it work? We'll see.

The Bendable You Too Prostate Massager

The Bendable You Too Prostate Massager has a lot going for it. Bent into the right shape, it will put one of its two vibrators right on the prostate, and keep it there, hands-free. The vibrations are powerful, and the multiple patterns are fun and effective. The only down side is that the second, exterior vibrator, doesn't do much for me, and the toy is very loud, in part because of that vibrator. It could've been a great toy. As it is, it's just a very good one.

Lelo Billy: The Ultimate Prostate Vibrator?

With an MSRP of US$129, Billy had better be the Ultimate Prostate Vibrator. Well, it isn't perfect, but right now, for this reviewer, it is as good as it gets. Its terrific shape and power are more than enough to keep me coming back for more. (Pun intended!) And there are plenty of speeds and settings to keep you from getting bored.